Maria Shriver has a little gem of a book called Just Who Will You Be? Good, short read. It asks big questions, in a very small book. At the end of the book she lists ten things she pledges to herself to keep her focused and centered on who she wants to be.
On a side note, I found it interesting that throughout the book, she referenced several times how she was determined to find who she wanted to be, instead of who she is. I see that as a very distinct difference, but maybe it’s just semantics. For me, when topics like this arise, I think in terms of WHO I AM, not who I want to be. But okay…moving on.
I enjoyed reading about Maria’s journey to self discovery. But more than anything, I liked the list she created for herself as a pledge to “keep myself focused and centered on just who I want to be,” she writes.
Below are Maria’s pledges:
1. I pledge to “show up” in my life as myself, not as an imitation of anyone else.
2. I pledge to avoid using the word “just” to describe myself. For example, I won’t say, “I’m just a mother,” “I’m just a student,” or “I’m just an ordinary person.”
3. I pledge to give myself ten minutes of silence and stillness every day to get in touch with my heart and hear my own voice.
4. I pledge to use my voice to connect my dreams to my actions.
5. I pledge to use my voice to empower myself and others.
6. I pledge to serve my community at least once a year in a way that will benefit other people.
7. I pledge to ask myself, “Who am I? What do I believe in? What am I grateful for? What do I want my life to stand for?”
8. I pledge to sit down and write my own mission statement.
9. I pledge to live my own legacy.
10. And I pledge to pass it on.
What an interesting exercise Maria did. I discovered while reading her list of ten things she pledged, that I heard my own voice in many of them. Of course, #1 “I pledge to “show up” in my life as myself, not as an imitation of anyone else” resonated with me – - just think back to all of the recent (and not so recent) articles I’ve written on being Real.
Along with “showing up as myself”, the ones where she mentions using her voice (#4 & #5) really struck a chord with me. In “Dreaming. Living. Reality.” I wrote about connecting my dreams to actions. I acknowledged, “I’m a dreamer. I‘m fully living each day. But I’m also a realist. There’s nothing in me that wants to live a fantasy, so I dream in order to create.”
Using my voice to empower myself and others is something that is very important to me. But, you already know that if you read my blog. I love to use my voice to share my thoughts on Trust, Surrender, Love, Truth. It’s my intention that through the topics I choose to write about and the interviews I conduct and post, that I’m able to present material to you that’s inspiring, encouraging, and comforting. My hope is that together, we are sharing, learning, and growing as we use our voices.
On the bottom of my email, I have about 50 quotes that rotate with each outgoing message. Although my husband tells me I can’t quote myself, I say Why not? So, here’s one that’s in the mix that sums up how I like to use my voice. It says:
“About Leslie: As long as I am genuinely expressing myself, I feel like the person I was meant to be. How I do it is irrelevant.”
Find your voice. Use it. Use it to empower yourself and others. If that feels scary in some way, or you simply want/need the practice of using it, use it with me. I’d be honored to tell your story and have your voice shared with others.
Find your voice. Use it.